nightfox: (Anime Me)
nightfox ([personal profile] nightfox) wrote2013-09-05 01:37 pm

Thoughts on Fangirls

If you are a fan, a female, a female fan or know any female fans then check this out:

Fangirl Isnt' A Dirty Word by Deborah Stanish



Thanks to [livejournal.com profile] issy5209 for pointing this article out!

I am quite happy to identify as a "fangirl" even if I technically left my girlhood long ago. And while I do roll my eyes a bit at the public behavior of some fangirls (harassing actors in their private lives is just not cool) by and large, most of the fangirls I know are seriously cool people and I am proud to call myself one of them.

[identity profile] the-muppet.livejournal.com 2013-09-05 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
That's wonderful. Thank you for sharing the link ♥

[identity profile] archaeologist-d.livejournal.com 2013-09-05 06:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Most of my fangirl friends are totally cool and I'm a fangirl, too, although I haven't been in girlhood for quite some time.

I think the media and social networks tend to focus on the 'bad' and lump everyone into the same pot, mainly because it's easier than understanding the subtleties of fannish experience. Sadly.

[identity profile] tambear13.livejournal.com 2013-09-05 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I love being a fangirl, but occasionally I do get very embarrassed because of what other people do...

[identity profile] issy5209.livejournal.com 2013-09-06 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
exactly!
Its just how fangirls are treated or viewed in the wider community that is a problem, as somebody else said

Fangirls are not only being told they are doing it wrong, they are also being mocked and marginalized within the larger fandom community.
and that's not cool either.
Mind you, I think its still OK to laugh at One Direction fans who got all upset and wanted to go after members of "The Who" for daring to suggest that a song was a Who ripoff, when they didn't know who The Who was to start with!!!