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*sigh* I hate when I get "removed" from someone's friends list for no reason I'm aware of. I mean, if it's someone I don't really talk to or our fandoms are no longer in sync, well, that I could at least understand. But when that's not the case...
Ah well. No one can be universally well liked, right?
Ah well. No one can be universally well liked, right?
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Date: 2013-09-08 06:23 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2013-09-08 06:36 am (UTC)From:*hugs* Thanks bb <3
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Date: 2013-09-08 07:03 am (UTC)From:I once had a person here on LJ (who I've known in RL, too) who ranted about nobody answering to her entries and therefore kicking everybody off her Flist. I mean...huh? Everyone uses their LJ for their own reasons, but to get replies?
It's always difficult to understand why a person drops you, no matter if it's online or in RL. But sometimes it's just them, not you.
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Date: 2013-09-08 07:51 am (UTC)From:Ah well, its not like I don't have plenty of awesome friends already!
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Date: 2013-09-08 07:53 am (UTC)From:I think you're awesome, bb! *hugs and clings*
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Date: 2013-09-08 08:05 am (UTC)From:I shall not mope, I have lots of awesome friends like YOU <3
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Date: 2013-09-08 09:30 am (UTC)From:Ah, people and friendships- waxing and waning with life.
Yes, that would be upsetting, but I tell myself if I don't ask why I have the fortune when new friends are added, then I shouldn't question when old ones drift. Can you tell maudlin me has given this some thought??
Anyway *hugs*.
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:26 pm (UTC)From:Thanks hun. You're so right about that. I have been friended out of the blue before so I guess being de-friended shouldn't be that big a deal. People come, people go and really awesome people stay <3
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Date: 2013-09-08 09:34 am (UTC)From:Nope, must not be me. *nodnodnods*
Don't mind my silliness, but it makes me wonder who'd drop you, since you are awesome!
You have been a bit...*quiet* on your lj in the past few months; perhaps it was believed you were no longer active?
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:24 pm (UTC)From:Also, if YOU defriended me I'd find you and kick your arse! You aren't getting rid of ME with a simple mouse-click!
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:19 pm (UTC)From:*shrugs* I'll probably never know the reason behind it but it's a small mystery in the grand scheme of things. I was just feeling a bit hurt and bewildered when I made this post. I'll get over it soon enough. I still have a fantastic bunch of friends here!
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Date: 2013-09-08 11:31 am (UTC)From:I've only ever unfriended two people. One because we just did not get along, I mean seriously. It was like chalk and cheese, and they were one of my first friends when I joined LJ. But, they never commented on anything I wrote, or even replied to comments I left on their stuff... So I thought - whats the point?
And the other person was just being really condescending in any replies to comments or comments on my posts so...
I've never looked to see how many have unfriended me -- I'd say it's a lot! But if I'm not missing them then...
That sucks to have happened to you =(
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:29 pm (UTC)From:I didn't actually go looking for someone defriending me, I got an email alert telling me I'd been defriended. I should probably turn off that alert. It'll probs save me some heartache in the future!
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Date: 2013-09-08 12:24 pm (UTC)From:I did defriend someone by accident once and it took a while before the person pmed me to ask.
I don't think you should take it personally, though. I'm sorry that you feel bad about it. :(
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:32 pm (UTC)From:I'm getting over it. With so many other wonderful friends, it's hard to be too mopey about it!
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Date: 2013-09-08 12:35 pm (UTC)From:*shrug* I have been known to cut people because I added them hastily and they turned out to be people I could barely tolerate and then one day they did something that pushed me over the edge, but they were also people I barely interacted with. If you really feel it could be a mistake, pm them.
Also, you are awesome and you can't please 'em all. So true. Just keep being your awesome self. <3 <3
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:36 pm (UTC)From:I believe I friended this person through a Merlin friending meme and though we aren't besties or anything, I've been reasonably active in commenting on her entries. Yes, a little less active lately but not totally silent!
Ah well, it's a small matter in the grand scheme!\
*hugs*
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Date: 2013-09-08 01:40 pm (UTC)From:Yeah, really. Lol.
It's a bit hard not to let it bother you, though, I've been there before. But you are so kind and supportive and lovely that I cannot fathom why anyone would remove you at all.
The whole not knowing WHY is frustrating. xx
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Date: 2013-09-08 04:23 pm (UTC)From:*hugs*
The WHY of it is what bugs me. I mean I know I haven't been around as much lately and no, I haven't been commenting on EVERY post like I usually try to but I haven't disappeared completely.
Ah well, I still have you and all my other wonderful friends. I can't be too sad over this when I think of that!
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